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Every
person has their own romantic fantasies. Each fantasy has its own unique
feeling, tone, and theme
Some people have simple fantasies, yet others elaborate their romantic
dreams with many sophisticated details. There is one thing in common
with all romantic fantasies, however. It is desiring something that you
don't already have in your life and that can only come true with a
romantic partner
Fantasies
provide peace of mind and escape from the real world, and romantic
fantasies in particluar serve as a vehicle to a more satisfying sex
life. Fantasies put people in touch with their sensuality, while also
allowing them to become more comfortable with themselves and their
relationships
Women tend to be
more sensual and romantic, relying on soft lighting, scented candles and
slow music to set the mood. When most women fantasize about making love,
it is often with a focus on their current partner though sometimes
someone unattainable, famous, etc. may creep into the mind's
eye.Location and setting play important roles as well, and the emotional
connection is critical in most cases
For some women,
the ultimate fantasy is just spending time with the one they love. As
one woman revealed, "I have the occasional naughty fantasies, but more
than anything, I think about being curled up in his arms
Sharing Your Fantasy
Very often, both
partners in a relationship have fantasies they would like to share with
their partners, but they don't reveal them. Fantasies evoke strong
emotions and revealing them can make you vulnerable. Therefore,
fantasies are usually kept private. To present your secret thoughts to
someone can take courage
It is easy and
comfortable to assume that revealing your fantasies will not be
appreciated by your partner. Although no one can read another person's
mind, most people think their partner would not want to live out a
fantasy with them
Tell
Your Partner What You Want
?How to tell
your partner about your romantic fantasies
All you
have to do is be clear about what you want and then tell your partner.
Yes, this may sound easier to do than it is, but what do you have to
lose? If you have someone who loves you, that person may be more
eager to make you happy than you think
:Try
This
Write your
fantasy down in one sentence. Have your partner write his or her fantasy
down as well
Now that you have written it down, you should be clear about what you
want
The next step is to share the fantasy with your partner. Go ahead, you
will be surprised who easily fantasies can become reality!
Remember, your
sensual and romantic thoughts can become reality if you share them with
your love. Enjoy |